HOW TO MAKE HIM MISS YOU

For him to miss you, he has to have wanted you at some point. If he never really liked you, he's not going to miss you. So here's my advice on how to make him miss you.


*Also, if everything is going good between you and your guy, you don't need this advice. Enjoy what you two have. But if it's been like a week of no talking or some months, give it a try. The key is to not act desperate or obsessive.  

1. DON'T CHASE HIM

You can't act like a simp, that's the guy's role. Let him be the one to pursue you because if he gets the hint that you're chasing him, he's going to lose interest. Obviously you need to still show interest, you can still initiate conversations & plans, but it needs to be balanced. If he never starts anything, then he's probably not that into you. A guy WILL go after what he wants. Even if he's shy, he will put in a little effort

.2. SLOW DOWN ON SOCIAL MEDIA

If you have him on Snapchat/Insta, stop always posting everyday. He'll obviously always know what you're doing so that doesn't give him a chance to really miss your presence. If you have some really cool party you're at or if you're chilling with a bunch of friends, you can post it. But don't make it look like you're begging for attention. Keep it chill.

3. END THE CONVERSATIONS FIRST

STOP letting him be the one to leave you on read.  If you feel that the conversation is getting dry or your response is going to make him want to leave you on read...SAY NOTHING. End the conversation and make him miss you. When you don't hit him up again, he's likely going to chase you back....that's if he really wants you.

4. BRING BACK THE SUSPENSE

If he was getting bored , he wants you to make things more exciting or fun for him. Be unpredictable. If you guys weren’t dating, he probably found some other girl that was fresh and new, so try and bring back the mystery and suspense if you can.  

5. LEAVE HIM WANTING MORE

He needs to desire you. This is important because when you leave him, he needs to be thinking about you. If you were on a first date, don't sleep with him. Make him want to see you again. But do not wait too long to see him because he will likely forget about you and start to move on. 

6. HAVE AN EMOTIONAL CONNECTION

You have to have some deep convos and things to relate to. DON’T BE DRY. He will not miss that. So have interesting conversations and find things that you guys both like and have in common. 

7. GIVE HIM HIS SPACE

This is superrrrr important because if you are always hitting him up, he's just going to get annoyed with you. If he stopped chasing you and you want him to miss you, just give it some time and be patient. Let him do his own thing because soon he'll realize he misses the attention you used to give and he'll come back.

8. POST OCCASIONAL THIRST TRAPS

REMIND him of how hot you are and what he's missing out on. But do NOT do this everyday. Keep it sparingly that way you don't look like you're trying too hard. Just the right amount. And if you never do it, start too. 

9. BE MEMORABLE

If you guys are hanging out and you're worried he's not going to want to see you again, make sure to give him a really good impression. Do something most girls wouldn't do. Get him to see your fun side, because if you're boring, he's not going to miss that.

10. HAVE A GLOW UP

If you work on yourself, even in the slightest way, he'll notice. So try a new makeup routine, workout, eat healthy, tan, if you have curly hair straighten it if you have straight hair curl it....Just change it up. Guys are very visual so make sure you are doing it for yourself, but it doesn't hurt if he gets to see it;)