HOW TO GET HIM INTERESTED AGAIN

Wednesday, November 18, 2020

HOW TO GET HIM INTERESTED AGAIN



I'm sure you all have had that one guy that you really liked, but eventually he just lost interest. So I'm going to share some tips on how you can try to get him interested again.


Understand that these tips are ways in which you can try, but ultimately it is the guy's decision on whether or not he will be interested again. From my experience, these tips have worked. 

This can work on someone like an ex or on someone who ghosted you. If he rejected you or you know that he just simply does not like you anymore, DO NOT waste your time. If you know he's still attracted and there's still potential, give it a shot.

1. REACH OUT TO HIM

If he has not come back and said something to you, you can reach out to him. The thing is that it has to be done the right way. I know that it's better to just not reach out (since you might come on like you're chasing), but if you really do like him and you know he may still be interested (he did not reject you) then you can shoot your shot again. The key here is also time. Don't reach out too soon (if he ghosted).

Guys usually can't take hints so initiate and see his response. Guys like it when you are bold and confident and you might be pleasantly surprised with the results. 

So here are some rules that you can follow if you want.

1. Give it some time, wait to see if he hits you up  
2. Start with a basic opener like how are you or hey "name" or heyy
3. Understand their vibe- if they are extremely dry or you are getting uninterested vibes, just leave him on read at some point. 
4. DON'T PUSH IT. Pull back if they still aren't interested 


2. RECREATE THE INTRIGUE


A guy starts to like you because he is attracted to some quality about you and there is this initial intrigue. He wants to know more and see more and once you give him too much, the mystery and the fun can be lost. So be flirtatious, show him sides of you that he doesn't know, and keep some mystery.

3. SHOW INTEREST IN HIM


He has to know that you are still interested in him so he'll understand why you "came back".  So ask him questions about himself, compliment him occasionally, and try to have convos that aren't small talk. If you notice that he is not mimicking your energy, pull back. Stop initiating and see if he comes to you.

4. BE YOURSELF


If last time you were acting like someone you're not, show him how you really are. Show him the side that's fun and the side that your best friends love; guys love a good personality. 

5. SPICE IT UP


Send flirty pictures, texts, or anything that can take the conversation from something bland to something more exciting. It will help to get him more interested, but don't just make it ONLY flirting.

6. RESPOND FASTER


Sometimes guys get turned off if you take too long to answer. If you're on your phone and you see he sent you a message, just reply. But do not be on your phone waiting for him to answer, he knows you have a life so it's okay if at times you're slow too. If you used to just send out a text or snap once or twice a day, that was too slow, so try to speed it up.

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