How to get in someone's head

Friday, September 25, 2020

HOW TO GET IN SOMEONE'S HEAD


If you want someone thinking about you, here are a bunch of tips that you can try. DO NOT do all of these, try a couple and see how they work. If you are in a relationship, you shouldn't have to be playing mind games, these are mainly for the people that are just dating around or in the talking stages.



1.TEXT THEM THEIR NAME


It will get them thinking about you, you can either respond back or say nothing.

2. TEXT THEM SAYING YOU GOT A QUESTION


They'll be wanting to know what the question is then wait a while and say never mind or just don't respond.

3. ACT LIKE YOU DON'T CARE

If you stop showing you care, it will get them thinking about the attention you're not giving them anymore.

4. POST ON YOUR STORY/ VIEW THEIR STORY 
WHEN YOU LEAVE THEM ON DELIVERED

They'll be thinking about why you aren't answering. Don't do this all the time because it can come off rude, just now and then especially if they are a frequent poster.

5. FOLLOW THEIR FRIENDS/ LIKE THEIR POSTS

It gets them thinking about why you all of a sudden care enough to do that. Just don't do all their friends because it makes you look like a stalker, but maybe a couple.

6. TALK WITH THEM INCONSISTENTLY

If you aren't predictable, they'll be thinking about you more. So change up the timing of your responses. Respond fast, but then leave them on delivered for a while.

7. TEASE THEM

Give them the impression that you are going to do something for them that they want, but then don't do it.


8. SEND A VOICE MESSAGE

If you don't usually do this, send them one spontaneously. You can always just be "Hey, how are ya?". Or bring up some past conversation or whatever else you feel like they'll be interested in hearing.

9. DON'T PRIORITIZE THEM

Make sure they know you aren't focusing all your time on them. If they see that you are always available to them, they will think that you are only focusing on them and they will start to push you away.

10. SPONTANEOUSLY VIDEO CALL THEM

Let it ring a few times then hang up, they can either call you back or not. But they will be wondering why you called (if you don't typically do this). 

11. TRY MANIFESTING

Try the 369 method if you really are trying to get them thinking about you. To do this, write their name 3 times on a piece of paper, what you want them to do 6 times, and what you want them to say to you 9 times.

12. BE A LITTLE MYSTERIOUS

Don't always give too many details about your life. Get them wondering what you're doing, who you're seeing, and what your intentions are for them.


13. DON'T PLEASE THEM ALL THE TIME

Just don't always give in to what they want.

14. SUBTLY MENTION FUTURE PLANS 
THEY AREN'T INCLUDED IN

It'll get them thinking about what you will be doing without them.

15. MIMIC THE WAY THEY ACT WITH YOU

Use their slang, if they send long texts reciprocate, if they are holding eye contact you do the same.

16. USE THEIR NAME MORE

When you are texting or having a conversation with them, use it. It'll make them feel more special.

17. POST MORE WITH YOUR FRIENDS

Let them see that you keep yourself busy and you are not waiting around on them. If you don't feel like doing this, then just stick to keeping your life mysterious by not posting much.

18. DON'T BE CLINGY

Never act needy, it makes you look desperate. 

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