How to FINESSE a fboy

Thursday, September 24, 2020


HOW TO FINESSE A FBOY



Fboys are only out here to get with girls and move on to the next. They are never looking for a relationship; it's all about "no strings attached". If you are trying to play him instead of being the one that's getting played, here's my advice.




1. MIMIC HIS ACTIONS


Mimic the way he acts with you. If a fboy starts taking forever to respond, NEVER respond super fast (especially all the time). It gives him the impression that you are always around to answer, which makes him take advantage of that. Give him a taste of how he acts with you. If he takes an hour to respond, you take an hour.  If he starts acting dry, you act dry. If he's not initiating anything, you don't initiate. Eventually he will give in if he really wants you. 

2. GHOST HIM


Sometimes it is best to just disappear and give him his space. When you disappear, he starts to wonder where you are and why you stopped talking. If he really wants you, he will hit you up. Sometimes it takes a day, a week, or months. But you should NOT be waiting on him to hit you up. Continue on with your life and if he comes around again, it's on you if you want to start things up again.

3. TALK WITH OTHER GUYS


NEVERRRRRR rely on him. He is 100% talking to other girls so do NOT focus all your energy on him. Talk and make plans with other guys. You can never be exclusive with a fboy, they don't want that and you will only get yourself hurt. So if you guys have plans, make sure to always have backup plans with either yourself, friends, or other guys. This is because fboys are notorious flakes and if something better pops up, they will easily drop you with out an explanation.

4. DON'T ALWAYS BE AVAILABLE


If you are always available when he hits you up, he will take advantage of that. He will know that he can always rely on you as backup and he will stop chasing you. When you play it hard to get, he won't stop until he gets what he wants. BUT you have to play it right. If you always say no to plans, he will eventually just hit up someone else. 

5. LET THEM INITIATE


STOP initiating everything. If he wants you, he will initiate things. I am referring to conversations & plans. If you always hit him up first, he will start to think that you are clingy. It's fine to do it now and then as long as it's a balance. But the moment it's just you always starting it, it starts to make it look like you are the one chasing him.

6. BE FLIRTY


They LOVEEE it when you throw in flirty messages because it keeps them interested. If you aren't, they'll get the impression that either you are uninterested, or you just want to be friends. So throw in some flirty emojis, texting lines, or pictures, and they will definitely be more responsive. 

7. LEAD HIM ON


Keep him interested, but then don't give in. If he thinks he is about to get something that he wants, but then he doesn't get it, he'll come back until he gets it. It'll drive him crazy.

8. BE A MYSTERY


STOP revealing everything to him. If he knows everything about you, it loses the fun in things. He needs to be wondering what you're doing & who you're seeing. If he already knows, then there's nothing that's going to keep him from wanting to know more. Get him to guess your intentions with him, because the moment he knows that you only like him, you are going to get played. 

9. LEAVE HIM ON READ


If he is always the one to leave you on read, that means you will be waiting on HIM to hit you up again. Sometimes they'll just ghost you when they do that, so you are the one that ends up getting played. But if you do it first, then chances are he'll hit you up again.

10. ACT UNBOTHERED


If he's posting with other girls, DON'T get UPSET. You can not be surprised that he's with other girls. That's just a given. He's a fboy, so he's going to fuck around. So don't ever hit him up all emotional and upset, just don't let that get to you. 

11. DON'T SHOW HIM YOUR EMOTIONS


If he know that you caught feels, forget it. He'll dip. He's not here for love or for relationships. This also means to not get super angry with him. He's not your boyfriend so you can't get upset or go crazy on him if he does something you don't like. 



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